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Does she like me?

I am 15 years old. I am trying to find out if she likes me. She is also 15. I've know her for almost 6 months. It would also be a long distance relationship I live in New York and she lives in Maryland.I am talking to her over AIM (its is the same as MSN) and sometimes on the phone. I am Catholic she is Mormon (they are religions for people who don't know). I was with her once in person and I am seeing her again in about 1 month. Me and her have allot in common at first we were friends then I started to like her after about 5 months. I am kind of shy only around girls I like no one else. She is one of the cutest and sweatiest girls I've ever meet. This is the basic story.

There are 2 problems the first is I really can't tell if she likes me. I am kind of scared to tell her because I don't want to get hurt. The second is she also thinks I like her younger sister (she is 14). Her sister is also like her best friend. Her younger sister thinks I like her. I kind of did but not now.

The kind of conversations we have are about any thing. She does emotes like *hug* and *glomp* (its like a hug but you jump on the person)

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!

I really have no idea as to whether she likes you or not, because you haven't told us anything about the conversations that have taken place between the two of you. I suppose the fact that you have been communicating with each other and she hasn't tried to cut off the communicating would be an indication that she likes you.

My advice is for you to first, concentrate first on your schoolwork and being the best that you can be at what and who you are. Secondly, I wouldn't get to wrapped up in having a relationship with someone who is so far away because the two of you are so young and it's much easier for either of you to have any sort of meaningful relationship with someone with whom you can actually and easily have some sort of contact in person on a frequent basis. She meets people in person all of the time with whom she might become interested. You do too. It's okay to be friends though. Just, if you try to have a relationship over such a long distance, then I would hate to see you get hurt because you can't actually be around her most of the time and don't know everything that is going on with her. You have a better chance at success if you go for someone around where you live.

Thanks for you for your answer. I am doing very well in school I have a 91 average. I am always myself I don't change for no one. I'm looking for a meaningful reship.

I know that 91 average would be the high end of some sort of schoolastic scale since I was a teacher for a long time. However, what specifically does it mean in your case, please? Thank you!

It means I got a 90 (an A) in almost every subject. My lowest grad was in comp 83 because I talked too much. High test was in physics 96.

Physics at 15? Wow! I don't think that was offered in school when I was 15. But, I don't really remember. I do remember that I took biology. So, talking too much will affect your score, huh? Is comp computer or composition?

It is computers 1 I am a freshmen and my computer teacher said I would have got a 93 but I was talking every class so I got a 83.

The kind of conversations we have are about anything and she does emotes like *hug* and *glomp* (its like a hug but u jump on the person)

If she didn't like you, she would ignore you. You need to develop your relationship skills with girls that are closer to you. Do not put all your eggs in one basket; know what I mean? I would spend some time in the library and the internet studying this subject.

... at age 15... I would REALLY discourage a long distance relationship. Many adults have trouble making it work, so at 15, I'm not too sure. I have a brother who is 14, and he's just starting to experience the dating world.

If it's just talking, chatting, etc, then it's great. But I wouldn't expect to get into a deep meaningful relationship so far away at such an age.

As I told Clough its not really about the distance its really about that her sister thinks I like her and she thinks I like her sister.

so what your point ? You like her sister or her?. and do you want a long distand relationship with her ? Or you just want us to help you clean thing out that u like her but not her sister?.

but either way... my friend u 15 ^^ just enjoy life and have fun now... long distance sux .big time lol.. and u don't either have transportation or anything to help you guys see each other... so why not focus on pplz around u?. there might be someone better and cutier right acrross the hall way ^^ if u catch my drift

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Thanks for you for your answer. I am doing very well in school i have a 91 average. I am always myself i don't change for no one. I'm looking for a meaningful reship.

Be yourself and be honest with others, as to this female, there seems to be some confusion as to who gets the attention, so clear it up. Just me, I would look closer to home, than deal with those long distance things. Just to hard to manage for most of us. Be realistic, as meaningful relations don't just happen, and it takes two people, who agree to work together, so don't just figure all it takes is a cute girl, and strong feelings.

I don't like her sister. She thinks I like her sister but I don't like her.

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I dont like her sister. She thinks I like her sister but I don't like her.

As far as not liking her sister, that should be easy to solve through straightforward and honest communication with the one whom you do like.

People really do seem to be encouraging you to have a relationship with someone who is in a closer location to you. What do you think about that?

The trouble with this sister situation, I doubt she will hurt her sister, for a guy that's not around too much.

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Comments on this post Simple Asian agrees: to tell u something lol... things change lot haha... now 15 can even take college course like AP classes and it not funny T_T.. lol...

Now that you mention the letters AP, I do remember that we had courses like that in high school. Although, I wasn't involved in them because I was more interested in the arts.

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Now that you mention the letters AP, I do remember that we had courses like that in high school. Although, I wasn't involved in them because I was more interested in the arts.

Its not ap

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Now that you mention the letters AP, I do remember that we had courses like that in high school. Although, I wasn't involved in them because I was more interested in the arts.

Its not ap

Then, what is it? Thank you.

Well my answer to Clough... and hope it right... is

I was saying that the younger pplz now like freshmen in high school they can take all the classes like AP courses... college classes and stuff...

And by Cheese124 means it not ap then it could be regular Physic... or CP physic... hope it answer your question

Sorry it was kind of off the topic