Well OK I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost three months
I'm 15 yeah I know still young to be asking things about relationships thing is when me and her first started going out it was great I mean I knew she loved me and I mean she was there for me and I was happy
But about in the 2ed month things started getting weird I've been told so many things by so many people such as her friends and and I talk to some of my close friends that I've known for a few years and they all just say break it off cause they know me and they know its hurting me
But the fact is I love this girl with all my heart and its hard for me to hear people say to break it off also it just feels like when I talk to her we are becoming friends the rope that holds us to one another is breaking apart.
Some people say that I'm not mature enough to handle a relationship
And I guess... im just not really open to stuff I mean I know I'm messing this relationship up on my own :( and well I guess I'm not the best boyfriend ever or maybe not even a good one I mean I cry over this relationship a lot because its weird I try to hang out with her but she's always busy
And it feels like she is trying to push me away and like... I just don't think she loves me anymore nor cares about me I mean she says I love you to me but I just don't know if she means it and when I'm with her I don't really talk to her I guess cause I'm pretty shy and I don't know what to talk about most of the time I guess and I take things way to serious which sucks a lot
If anyone has anything to say about this please do or ask me any questions cause I sure can use the help.

I think you should sit down alone with her and talk about it. Tell her how you are feeling and that you really want to know how she feels about her relationship with you. Any relationship can be hard, but when you find that you cry a lot because of it then there is something that really needs to be fixed. Being with someone should make you feel good and happy, not depressed and insecure.

Yeah I will do that
The other thing is I guess I just don't know really what to do at times when I'm with her cause
This is really my first serious relationship my other ones were just I don't know nothing really I guess
But its just harder for me since I don't want to up to the point where I lose her cause she is the first person I ever loved and that I ever said I love you to and meant it she's the best thing that ever happened to me its just so hard feeling like she doesn't love me but I have talked to her about it and she says so does but I don't it just feels like there's something she's not telling me

You need to visit your library and look at several relationship books. Find one that relates to what you are thinking and check it out. Reading will really help you.

Thanks George_1950
Ill do that
Worst part about this is I mainly only see her at school and well we can't do anything at the school we go to it's a private school so its kind of lame.
But ill go read some books about this
Got any advice of what I should do with I'm with her? Not just alone but when other people are around too
Cause there's this one guy who is like madly in love with her and well he's trying to change my mind about her so yeah I'm going to see him next time I see her and I just wanted to know what to do cause when he's around she doesn't really talk to me since I don't talk much
Cause my friends tell me she loves me and she's mine and I need to step up and do something about it.

Read what you can at this site about dating and meeting girls; you don't have to agree with everything, by any means; but there is a lot of real-life experience shared right here that you can learn from.
Sometimes the best thing you can do to help your relationship is do little or nothing. So take it easy.

Talk with her.. its nice you have friends that worrie about you.. but put your own fears aside by talking to her =)

and Relationships has stages so don't worrie.. it always changes =) there are highs and lows

its never always high =) even though we would love it to be hehe..

I hope everything works out man

Regards

Thanks to everyone I hope it works out also
Thank you for the help

Talk to her about her feelings and express yours, that what builds bonds, and saying I love you are just words unless there is actions behind them. Your young and learning, but never listen to friends, they mean well, but don't always know what's best for you, or what you want. Want to be a good b/f? Talk and listen and pay attention to what she says and DOES. Don't be so in love, you can't see the reality of the situation, and when you have a problem, talk to her. Shy is okay for school, but not in a relationship.

Well yeah I can do that
And I think I worked out most of it I've been talking to one of my friends about this and stuff
And well she thinks that I need to tell my girlfriend to prove to me that she loves me cause I don't know and I guess I have to prove it back. Cause words won't work I don't think I guess I need actions.

I don't think telling her to prove her love, is a good idea, instead just observe how she treats you, and if it makes you happy, that's your proof. Do her the same way, and she will be happy.

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Originally Posted by Punkrock1992

Well ok ive been going out with my girlfriend for almost three months
im 15 yeah i know still young to be asking things about relationships thing is when me and her first started going out it was great i mean i knew she loved me and i mean she was there for me and i was happy
but about in the 2ed month things started getting weird ive been told so many things by so many people such as her friends and and i talk to some of my close friends that ive known for a few years and they all just say break it off cause they know me and they know its hurting me
but the fact is i love this girl with all my heart and its hard for me to hear people say to break it off also it just feels like when i talk to her we are becoming friends the rope that holds us to one another is breaking apart.
some people say that im not mature enough to handle a relationship
and i guess...im just not really open to stuff i mean i know im messing this relationship up on my own :( and well i guess im not the best boyfriend ever or maybe not even a good one i mean i cry over this relationship a lot because its weird i try to hang out with her but shes always busy
and it feels like she is trying to push me away and like...i just don't think she loves me anymore nor cares about me i mean she says i love you to me but i just don't know if she means it and when im with her i don't really talk to her i guess cause im pretty shy and i don't know what to talk about most of the time i guess and i take things way to serious which sucks a lot
if anyone has anything to say about this please do or ask me any questions cause i sure can use the help.

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I'm in the same situation, and I love her, and don't want to say anything just in case it makes her think something :(