He's gone again what do I do
:confused: I have been with my fiancé for almose 4 years well we were doing OK until about 2 weeks ago I was up in the hospital because I thaught I was having a miss carige. Well I had to stay there for 2 days and in that time I dident get one phone call or one visit from him.then I come to find out that my mother told him to stay away from me and our daughter until he can do right by us . So I thaught that he would just ignor her and I would see him when I got home well when I got home all of his stuff was gone. He called right as I got home and asked me to bring him is dog. I asked why he left and he told me that its just not working out between us and that he's not happy anymore. But the day before christmas ev he comes to see his daughter and is nice to me and I got him a present and he liked it and said thank you. And asked if I wanted to go back to his place so our baby could see his sister and his friends I said no but I don't know what he is doing . Do you think he is doing all of this because of what my mom said or what please help I really need to know and if you have any suggestions on how I can get him back asap please tell me that too thanks a lot bye
He's gone, what do you do?
Four years and a baby and one on the way is a lot to think about.First as a mother your child is A-number one on your list.Even though you make it sound like he is in your daughters life make sure he is dong the right thing by her(child support) I have always been suspicious of people who say one thing and do another,as in "I want to be with you but I took all my stuff and moved out just as you need my support and help cause I got you pregnant."This is really not the kind of person to depend on especially if your mother can tell him what to do.Even though I believe she has your interest at heart,the fact that boyfriend chose to cut instead of be at your side makes me wonder.I would take his action as a blessing to give you space to think about where your going with him and a warning of what he may do down the road.Right now please take care of yourself and your child and stay away from stress if you can,Mom loves you so lean on her as you need the best of care now and let things work out the way they will,good luck!:cool: