I recently discovered that my husband has been having a long standing affair. This coupled with his excessive drinking and his abrasiveness is the final straw for me. My question is simply this, "What do I need to do to ensure that after the divorce my husband will be limited to supervised visits with our children?" Don't get me wrong, my husband loves our children, but when he is drinking he doesn't make sound decisions. I have come home from work to find our 1 year old daughter reeking of beer and he's readily admitted to allowing her to drink some... and this is not a one time occurrence. My babysitter has also complained that our children arrive at her house not strapped in their carseats, which we have plenty of to go in every car we own. I am concerned that if left alone with him for an entire weekend our children will not be properly supervised or cared for. I am broken-hearted about pursuing a divorce and even more so about breaking up our family... but our children's best interest is what is most important at this point.
