OK so my ex broke up with me twice but we ended up becoming friends. I really like this girl I want to get back together with her but I'm also afraid that she might hurt me again. I really think she has changed because the last time we got back together we didn't talk about the problems we had but now we talk about everything that went wrong when we were together. I really need help what should I do

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Originally Posted by mike316

ok so my ex broke up with me twice but we ended up becoming friends. I really like this girl I wanna get back together with her but I'm also afraid that she might hurt me again. I really think she has changed because the last time we got back together we didn't talk about the problems we had but now we talk about everything that went wrong when we were together. I really need help what should i do

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Hey;

I think if you like her you should tell her.. don't think about anything else... you don't know if she's going to hurt you again or not unless you try again.. what's the worse thing that could happen.. you get your heart broken right? You'll get over it.. but its better to regret something you did than didn't do!

Byes

Sam (female)

Go slow and keep talking. That was probably the problem before, no communication, am I right?

Yea

Ok - you have to understand that girls do not think the same way as guy do. The reason you did not talk about your past issues is because she thinks you are now just friends and you are going to stay that way. I KNOW because I've done that. If you want your relationship to be more than 'just friends' know that you set yourself to be hurt again. So my advice - just keep it 'just friends' for now. Be thoughtful and nice (but not romantic nice if you know what I mean). If this goes well for a while then try to open a discussion and find why she dumped you. Is it something you did or she is going to say it'a her - she does not want to be in a committed relationship? That will best offer you any hope in find out what the issue was. Do not in all your hopes on this girl no matter how much you like her - what is meant to be will be.