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You stated your mom has had several biopsies.. were they all non-malignant or did she have a few that needed removal? Is there history of cancer in your family? Also, not all women are the same, some have normal sized nodes and some of us have larger than normal nodes, and they just feel stranger than what we are used to. If your 'lump' feels harder and is painful to touch, then please follow your doctor's advice upon your next visit. This does not mean that you actually have cancer (it could well be a calcium deposit which can also be easily dissolved or removed). And, if it is, then it does not mean the entire breast must be removed, a simple biopsy and removal of that lump after checking a frozen section of it should suffice if not malignant and not in danger of spreading further. By all means, don't let your mother frighten you any further than you already are. I'm sure she meant well, but in this scenario it's the doctor you should listen to. Wishing you all the best, and Happy Holiays!
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