What do I do this guy is a total but his a good person we have been on and off but he doesn't seem to come after me no more and when I ask him or try to talk about it he runs from it and I can seem to let him go

What exactly is your situation. On and off for how long?

Since July and we started as flirting then we went out on a date then I told him haw I felt and we agreed to to take it slow and we would meet and hookup because we ware both very sexually attracted to one another then he would say he would call me and we would go out but he never did and always had escuces so I OK I figured he still wants me then we had a fight cause of a mis understanding and then I was the one to look for him and try to make a move on him again he said that before this happens we need to talk so I have been tryng to get him on the phone then I finally do and he acts annoyed and acts as if he didn't no wha we after talk about then he says his going to call back and he never does then when I ask him he has escuces

Quite honestly it does not sound like you were any kind of relationship with this person. Sounds like this person was only interested in one thing, and maybe already got it. Now does not want to continue it and does not know how to tell you? I think you need to back off and let this one go. That is just my opinion though.

How do you let it go. You need to get yourself busy and start volunteering or doing things to improve your future. Education, job? Friends? It is time you did nothing more. See how this person reacts. Okay?

OK but he won't care I know he won't

Well then what is the problem. He does not care, then why should you. You have nothing with this person. You might think you do, but it is obvious you do not.

Let me ask you some that my mom has going on the holidays she is very depressed because of a failed story with a man she is very sad and shocked after one year that he cheated on her

It does happen. Are you doing anything special for your mom. Spending the holidays together? Has she spoken to anyone about what as happened? It is normal to be sad and shocked but time heals all wounds.

This is mom speacking I don't know haw to get over it it was a very important relkationship for 7 years he was my love we went tru so much together then one day he cheats on me and decide to tro everythink away ia year has passed I a have found someone who loves me very much but after what happened I don't give myself completely to a man so you can say he loves me more then I do I keep thinkink about him and it is such a shock to me that I can seem to get over it I need help and advice haw to make this feeling go away or fix it for the better
Please help me