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  • Dec 15, 2007, 01:32 PM
    4answers
    The grass is always greener till you get there and find its artificail turf.
    Ever loved and lost someone - The one that got away.

    Anyone ever left someone only to find that that the choice was the wrong one ?
  • Dec 15, 2007, 02:41 PM
    CaptainRich
    Who hasn't had second thoughts? Women or men?
    Before I can weep with you, I got to tell you... I had to chuckle when I first saw this post.
    The first thing I thought of when I read, "artificial turf" was: "LOW MAINTENANCE!"

    Life happens to everybody differently. Heck! I should have become a billionaire! I would have tried to enjoy it. Take solice in hoping that next time you look deep before you leap
  • Dec 15, 2007, 03:49 PM
    s_cianci
    No, to both of your questions.
  • Dec 15, 2007, 04:29 PM
    Santi
    Interesting question. It is often the case that we want what we don't have, and don't appreciate what we do have. When we feel like we have made a mistake by letting go of a loved one, only to feel those feelings we had at the beginning of the relationship resurface (feelings of love, bliss, contentment, joy, etc), it is actually a blessing in disguise.

    Anything outside of yourself rises and falls, comes and goes. Have you ever had a relationship that didn't eventually end or change in some way? The lesson here is not to get fixated over finding or losing "the one", but realizing everything that happens in our lives is there to remind us that we hold incredible power to create whatever it is we desire. Love is ultimately non-causal and comes from within, not without.
  • Dec 15, 2007, 06:05 PM
    CaptainRich
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by s_cianci
    No, to both of your questions.

    Good for you... breath out... breath in...
  • Dec 15, 2007, 06:09 PM
    CaptainRich
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Santi
    Interesting question. It is often the case that we want what we don't have, and don't appreciate what we do have. When we feel like we have made a mistake by letting go of a loved one, only to feel those feelings we had at the beginning of the relationship resurface (feelings of love, bliss, contentment, joy, etc), it is actually a blessing in disguise.

    Anything outside of yourself rises and falls, comes and goes. Have you ever had a relationship that didn't eventually end or change in some way? The lesson here is not to get fixated over finding or losing "the one", but realizing everything that happens in our lives is there to remind us that we hold incredible power to create whatever it is we desire. Love is ultimately non-causal and comes from within, not without.

    Good for you... breath in... breath out. I'm not mean, just cynical lately.
  • Dec 15, 2007, 06:11 PM
    leti1980
    Yer done them both!
    But it was meant to be. Did not seem like it at the time though.
  • Dec 15, 2007, 09:06 PM
    N0help4u
    Sometimes artificial turf can prove to have and serve its purpose.

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