Hello just need some advice on what to do. I dated this girl for 3 years the she said that she was not in love with me anymore. So I went on with my life and dated 2 other people but still kept contact with her. About 2 months after we split she got with my old friend but after about 6 months of been separted she wanted me back so I said yes.now we had being going out for a year just been on holiday and it was best time of my life. But for past 3 weeks haven't seen her because been to busy with uni work and she said we were not going well and she split with me.she said she still loved me and could imagine marryin me someday. She has had a lot on with uni her family her body issues so is it right of me to think she just needs time away from me to get her head straight? I know there is not another guy.what should I do?

give her the space she needs. However, txt her, or write her a letter saying (go old fashion) telling her that you are always here for her through good & bad.
make suer she knows that you aren't going ANYWHERE =] good luck!

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Originally Posted by paulo622622

hello just need some advice on what to do. i dated this girl for 3 years the she said that she was not in love with me anymore. so i went on with my life and dated 2 other people but still kept contact with her. Bout 2 months after we split she got with my old friend but after about 6 months of been separted she wanted me back so i said yes.now we had being going out for a year just been on holiday n it was best time of my life. But for past 3 weeks havnt seen her cos been to busy with uni work and she said we were not going well and she split with me.she said she still loved me and could imagine marryin me someday. she has had alot on with uni her family her body issues so is it right of me to think she just needs time away from me to get her head straight? i know there is not another guy.what should i do?

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O we have organised to go to cinema in a week should I just say no n give her time she said it would be as just mates?but we are both mad about each other.

Women can be so complicating at times. I have gone out with many girls and I can relate to you. I was going out with this one girl for about a year and out of nowhere she just said that she needed her space and time apart. It was the most depressing time of my life. She played me like I was some type of puppet. She made me wait and she got my hopes up. She would want to go get coffee as "just friends" I would go and I would cry because I missed her. I'm telling you that you should stay away from these kinds of girls. I am dating this girl right now and she is 100 times better than any of my old girlfriends. It takes time. You will eventually find the right person. I believe that anyone who plays with your feelings is a witch. Its unbelievable how these girls can act. I say, "stay away from her and find someone new, there are millions of girls out there, I can promise you that there is someone out there for you and this someone will treat you right and actually want to be with you.