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Hi every body...
First of all I wanted to know that if am not linked to any kind of web site can they send me emails to my junk folder..? I have never ever subscribed to any web site they sent a email naked pictures of mens.it waz a kind of advertisement of enlargement of penis .yesterday my boyfrend took my password he opend my emails and then he opend the junk box.. he saw those mails.. and its all finshed now its all over our relationship is ened he told me that you are intersted in mans and even I did not saw that email he told me and saw it oh MY GOD... TELL me what is this.. LIKE THIS MAYBE HE Don't TRUST ME

He is such a dumb jerk, as everyone gets junk mail like that (thats why its junk mail) It even gets in the regular mail sometimes.

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Originally Posted by mis846

hi every body...
first of all i wanted to knw that if am not linked to any kind of web site can they send me emails to my junk folder..???i have never ever subscribed to any web site they sent a email naked pictures of mens.it waz a kind of advertisment of enlargment of penis .yesterday my boyfrend took my password he opend my emails and and then he opend the junk box..he saw those mails ..and its all finshed now its all over our relationship is ened he told me that u are intersted in mans and even i did not saw that email he told me and saw it oh MY GOD ... TELL me what is this .. LIKE THIS MAYBE HE DONT TRUST ME

If this guy does not have a computer, maybe his is unaware about "junk" and "spam". Tell him, ( that is, if you want to continue the relationship with someone who just reacts and doesn't try to talk things over), exactly what talaniman said, "everyone get junk mail like that (thats why its junk mail) It even gets in the regular mail sometimes." If he won't accept this truth, trust is not in his vocabulary. Trust is a rare commodity in a relationship. If you don't have trust, you have very little. Since you were not at fault, I am sure you want him to realize you did nothing wrong but sounds like he overreacted.

It would serve him right if you never talked to him again. You deserve better.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

It would serve him right if you never talked to him again. You deserve better.

Yes talaniman you are right.. ok tell me what should I do should I clear him I did but he did not listen to me he said you are intrested in other mans.. yahks I never ever opend these kinds of sites in my whole life.. I don't know what hapend to him I have stopped calling him and so do he... :confused:

Say "good riddance" and move on.

I think you have seen a part of him that was hidden before. Leave that jerk alone, as he really owes you an apology, and a big make up dinner with a movie thrown in. To accuse some one and not hear them out at least, is a big red flag of how he communicates, and his quick to judge temper. Be glad you found this out and think about it, is that what you deserve from a partner?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I think you have seen a part of him that was hidden before. Leave that jerk alone, as he really owes you an apology, and a big make up dinner with a movie thrown in. To accuse some one and not hear them out at least, is a big red flag of how he communicates, and his quick to judge temper. Be glad you found this out and think about it, is that what you deserve from a partner?

I think you are exactly 'right on' that she has seen a part of him that was hidden before! She does deserve more from a partner. I tried to do this as "Comment" but the site said I had to share with others first!! :)