Hmm this si strange. I want to keep this very simple, short and sweet.:cool:

I really care / like this girl and want to be with her for ever! (Marry her to be precise)

I have already said that I want to be with u, (not the marry part)!

Now the twist.. :confused: . She's been through a rough 3 year real ad has broken up for the past year... when I asked her, she says friends only... when I asked her, do you like it/ comfortable when I hug u. her response. "how can i... we are frinds, right"

Question, how do I change this to friends part to wife part. And she does care about me.. and is not cheating or anythign (simple, nice girl):p

How can I succeeed. I will truly , sincerely respect the person, matter of fact, thank him/her if someoen can help me.:)


Thanks.

Raul

How long have you been dating her?

Also how old are you both?

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How long have you been dating her?

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Not datign her. I asked her out, but she said only frinds. Known her for roughly 3 and half months only.. and I think she could be the one... because I grew really close to her.

The whole universe seeems to help me.. but they say, if you wnt soemthing really really bad. The whole universe (cosmic powers) will help u..


A quick note: my co-worker, she's very mature and in a way helping me too. She says to tell her that, "i know what i want, till u figure out what u want, dont' call me" will this help, can this be rephrased? Should I say this at all?

Thanks guys.


Raul

Your not dating her... so you want to go from friends to marriage?!

I think you should try dating her first before you consider proposing.

You can't propose to a woman you aren't dating. Heck you don't even know her that well yet, nor does she know you. You have only known each other 3 months.

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she says to tell her that, "i know what i want, till u figure out what u want, dont' call me" will this help, can this be rephrased?

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If you say that to her you will lose her in a heartbeat. Any man that said something like that to me after only knowing me 3 months, and not even dating, would have the door smack him on his behind on his way out and he'd never hear from me again.

Slow down, dude, your moving way to fast as she told you she doesn't see you as date material, so marriage is a figment of your emotions. At least let her get to know you and get comfortable.