My family just experienced a death. Their mother just died out of no warning. They won't be very respectful to me sometimes, and I am wondering how they are feeling. My daughter, is 12 and this is the time she needed a mother the most. I have my two sons who loved her and still do. I don't know what to do I'm confused. I do not really have control anymore and things are getting out of hand. Everything is going crazy. PLEASE HELP ME!