Originally Posted by jonmizon
My wife cheated on me and I have lost all trust in her.
My wife swore on our 15 month old son that it was only a kiss, But the next day told me that they had sex, She told me after I had asked what positions etc they had done and was he bigger than me ( Yes he was) she also told me that she had seen him 7 times but only had sex once for 15 mins and all the time she was thinking She shouldnt be doing this ?
It started via kissing which lead into the bedroom were both of them took there clothes off and he went behind her without a durex they layed her on the bed and went down on her then put on a durex and finished off and she tells me that in 15 mins that she never came,
She never enjoyed it and all she thought about was that she shouldnt be doing this ? but met him 2 times after the sex to talk ?
He is 47 years old and she is 24 years old a difference of 23 years.
I am now staying at a friends home 15 miles away, as this is that she wants, as she thinks its better that I stay there and she comes over on her days off with our son for 4hrs or so every other day and may stay from time to time?
She tells me that she loves me and wants us to work out for our son. But living 15 miles apart doesent help as I think she is still seeing him in her spare time at work ie: lunch and dinner breaks.
She does phone me to let me know she is on her breaks etc and we do spend most of the time chatting dueing them, But I still feel that she is pushing me away but not wanting me there looking after our son in which her mum does. we both live with my mother in law.
She doesnt want me staying at home as she thinks that am better were I am and she doesnt have to worry about me ?.
Please can someone Please give me advice on what to do, as I really do love her to bits, but hate the thought of her being with someone else and every time I look at her I picture him having sex with her and for another man looking after my son.
But I dont want to stay in my marrage living 15 miles away being a part time husband and father.
Please Please Please Advice Me
xxx