Ok I am pretty sure you guys have a lot of questions up here like this but there is this boy that I like but I don't know if he likes me. I am 14 and in the high school.He is between the ages of 15-17 an I see that he stares at me a lot in one of my classes. What should I do, should I start a conversion with him or wait awhile. I need advice and one thing that I think is a problem is because of my weight. I am not a small person and now these days boys like these skinny girls and I think that might be a reason, I am not ugly at all and I really want a boyfriend. Someone please help me and give me advice. Thanks.

OK firstly to know if someone likes you (especially a guy) follow these steps:
1. count how many times he stares at you in class
2. try talking to him and see if he fumbles on words or anything like that
3. is he acting stupidily to impress you? If the answer is yes, he might like you
4. is he always haning around with your friends trying to get any info. About you?

After all of this you confront him. You tell him that you like him. Because most boys like you to make the first step because they are shy.

The worst thing he can say is no and that doesn't really matter because there are plenty more boys waiting out there for you.

GIRLS

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---------on trees. The best ones-----------
--------are at the top of the tree.----------
------The boys don't want to reach--------
----for the good ones because they-------
--are afraid of falling and getting hurt.----
-Instead, they just get the rotten apples--
---from the ground that aren't as good, --
-but easy. So the apples at the top think-
-something is wrong with them, when in--
----reality, they're amazing. They just----
-----have to wait for the right boy to------
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I think you should kind of build up to talking, like during class ask about his test, then start saying hi in the hallways, then start talking to him regularly. It worked pretty well for me, and I am pretty awk with guys. Lol!

Don't let your size bother you. There are a lot of guys that aren't into the skinny little girls. The one's that are might just need to grow up and not be affected by what their friends might think.

Your idea of starting a conversation with him is a good one! Keep on talking to him and start as friends. You can do stuff as friends and get to know each other. You don't have to call it the boyfriend and girlfriend thing right away either. And don't be afraid to talk to him about those sorts of things as far as what he might think if other people start teasing him about you... He might not be as mature as you, and it might help him to consider how he would react to them.

One quick story from when I was your age... I let the opinions of other guys keep me from going out with someone who was really a good person. The only thing was that she wore cowboy boots and boys jeans all the time, and had a pocket protector? Anyway, I was so afraid that people would laugh at me that I avoided even talking to her about it. Boy I feel stupid for that, almost 25 years later!

I was the same as you.
I was scared to talk to my now boyfriend cause of my weight.
But I started to talk to him.
It is so worth it.
Just talk to him.
He will like you for who you are not what you weigh.
Good Luck!!

The best way is to ask him about his test, say a small hi while passing by, and if you are too afraid to walk up to him and start a conversation, you can always give him signs he can come up to you. So whenever you catch him looking at you in class, smile to him, show him you are interested. But not all the time, ignore him a little, smile a little, look away shyly a little, and so on. I think he is interested, who knows, he may be a future boyfriend! :D
Goodluck!