PLEASE... I NEED SOME ADVICE... I DON'T WANT TO LOSE ANOTHER CHILD!!

My husband and I just got married last weekend :D... however, I think that I might be pregnant. Granted, I am on my period now, but my mother had her period (or psuedoperiod) 4 months into her pregnancy with me and a couple of my siblings. I know its rare and uncommon, but I have gotten nauseous and have vomited a couple of times in the past couple weeks. Actually, I have gotten nauseous probably 5 days a week for the past 3 weeks, and it normally is either during the middle of the day or at night just before I go to sleep. My breasts are very tender and my nipples hurt when touched at all. Also, I always have horrible period cramps the day I get my period... well, I started my period yesterday and still haven't had any cramps at all. :confused:

Can someone please help me out. I know I should take a pregnancy test, but all the times I have taken an over the counter test, they have come up negative... when I really was pregnant... due to the negative results, I hadn't taken care of myself like I should (no smoking, no drinking... etc.) this resulted in miscarriages. I am only 19 and have had 3 miscarriages... ALL FROM NEGATIVE RESPONSES.

I know I should go to the doctor and have a blood test done, but I'd like some advice before I spend the money to go (I don't have insurance)... so it'll be quite a bit.

What do you think? Please help!

Well the best thing to do is go to your doctor, especially since you have had miscarriages in the past. What you experiencing my be implantation bleeding, even though it is not very common. Like I said, the best thing for you to do is make a dr's appt ASAP and have a blood test done so that you can take care of yourself and your possible baby.

No one here is going to be able to tell you "yes you're pregnant" or "no you're not pregnant".

The only thing you can do is what you already mentioned... either take a HPT or set an appt for a blood test with your doctor.
If you are not pregnant I would get insurance ASAP... bloodwork is not as expensive as the hospital bill after having a baby. And almost all insurances won't cover the pregnancy you if you got pregnant before getting insurance.