Predestination and unconditional election
I and some of my other fellow Christians are getting together for a Bible study on Predestination and unconditional election.
I was introduced to Calvinistic beliefs on a different message board. And these are two things in which they base their beliefs. I am having a hard time understanding Predestination and I am not alone. I originally thought upon reading a Calvinists reponses that they were wrong in their belief. But the thing about it is that their beliefs are supported Biblically. Even still I am having a hard time with it.
I cannot understand how predestination and unconditional election do not contradict free will. I know we have free will as there are many verse to support this. But there are also verses that mention predestination and "the elect". I believe that somehow predestination and free will go hand in hand, but my mind is refusing to see the coexistance and is instead wanting to see contradiction. But I know this can't be so because I do not believe the Bible ever contradicts itself. Therefore I am stuck with my lack of understanding.
So I ask you all, if any of you have understanding on predestination and election to please share it. It seems to me that this is one of those difficult to understand things in the Bible, but it could be that I simply am not getting it.
Also, if any of you have any good sites that would also help me then please link them. I would like to gather information to take with me to this Bible study along with the understanding my fellow Christians on this board have as well.
Thank You,
Tara