I found out that my spouse is having an affair with a coworker. I sent him him an email in which I outlined my knowledge and what my expectations were. Although the language was not pretty, it was also not physically threatening but did have itemized divorce requirements. He forwarded these to his now girlfriend. In the email, I use quite several explitives in describing her. He and I emailed back and forth today and without my knowledge he was forwarding these to her. She took out an "order to stop harassment" against me which she placed on my doorstep tonight. How can this effect me? What will be the next step? Thanks, C