Recently I broke up with my ex boyfriend and now I can't stop thinking about him
I thin k he's vey hurt and probably doesn't want to see me again because I believe his feelings was crushed when I sent him the text. Now I want him back but I don't know how to do it . Do u think I should call him or see him in person ? How should I say it?

I honestly think you should stay away from him. The reason being is you broke up with him. Why? Also would like to say that all of a sudden now that you can not stop thinking about him, you want him. Then when your back together you will feel the need to break up again.

Vicious cycle. This is just my own opinion. Ex is an ex for a reason.

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Originally Posted by shanny_2006

recently i broke up with my ex boyfriend and now i can't stop thinking about him
I thin k he's vey hurt and probably doesnt want to see me again because i believe his feelings was crushed when i sent him the text. Now i want him back but i dont know how to do it . Do u think i should call him or see him in person ? How should i say it?

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Why did you break up with him and what changed that you now want him back?

First off can I say NEVER break up with someone in a text. You are basically saying that after everything you guys have been through, you don't have the decency to confront him about the situation. Now you want him back? Yes he probably is hurt, but I think you should try and talk to him. Call him and ask him if you all can meet somewhere to talk. Tell him that you have been thinking about things and that you really need to see him. If he refuses to meet you, then (and only then) explain yourself over the phone. Make sure that before you do this, you are sure you want him back. This isn't just a case of "I want what I can't have and then once I have it it's worthless"? If you care about him, fight for him. Get your man back, but treat him right when you do. Good luck girl!!

<3 Leslie