My boyfriend tells me he really likes me, he is always giving me endless compliments, calling me great things, telling me I'm perfect. Always texting and calling etc. the only down side is he seems quite sexual. I'm a virgin and never been in a relationship, he does respect that otherwise he wouldn't be with me, and he said we will wait, providing we can kiss and touch. I agreed. He said he's a really physical sort of person who likes to hold hands, kiss, touch etc etc. and really enjoys contact, is he going to use me and take advantage of my lack of experience? Or does he sound genuine, I don't want to get hurt, yet I do think I really like him.

Don't let him take advantage so that you don't have to find out. IF he truly loves you and is all that patient he will respect you for it. Take one day at a time and it should work out for the best.

With healthy men, it's **ALWAYS** about the goal, penis/vagina sex.

I hope that answers your question. :)

If you stick to your boudaries, and respect yourself, then he cannot take advantage of you, but don't let your fears and inexperience, stop you from enjoying your b/f, or suspecting him of something that ain't happening. Sounds as if he is just being himself.

He sounds pretty genuine to me. He's been honest and upfront with you about who he is and what he wants. He's certainly going to want to go all the way with you eventually but you'll have to decide for yourself if and when you're ready for that.

I think time will tell on that one. Some of my close friends can also be quite touchy-feely without any sexual attraction, so it may be just what he's used to. Just don't let your guard down too much and don't be afraid to say stop.