My boyfriend is supposed to be paying child support for a child that may or may not be his. When the child turned 3 ( she is now 8) the mother finally contacted him, wanting support. He was in the hospital having back surgery on the day of the court hearing. He was told he was "father by default" and had to pay child support. I'm not sure how they arrived at the dollar amount as he was unable to work at the time due to his injury. He has called many times trying to get information but is always told there's nothing he can do as he was found to be the father by "default" which is stupid. He wants to relinquish rights to the child as he's not sure she's his nor has he been allowed ANY contact with her at all anyway. What do we do? We can't really afford a lawyer at this time. Thank you for any advice.