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  • Dec 6, 2007, 10:24 AM
    Miss Sparkle
    Too many men, so little time!
    I broke up with my boyfriend tim of 16 months about 2 months ago.
    One week after the break up i started dating 23 year gary from work. It lasted 2 weeks until i got a txt from him saying he needed a break coz of family issues. A few days later i spotted kayley from work sneaking into his house and rumour has it theyve been having sex. Funny coming from someone who said he wanted to be on his own.

    Soon after that i was still upset from the gary thing so me and 20 year old luke, who is a close friend who i also work with, we went out and got a bit drunk. We went back to his and ended up kissing. I never would have kissed him if i wasnt drunk. The next morning i felt so terrible that i may have led him on, so we agreed to give the relationship a go.a week after that I went clubbing with 24 year old alan, a friend from work. We ended up back at his, I told him I was guna break up with luke the next day because I saw him as too much of a friend, we were on alans bed and started kissing, it led to more but not sex.

    I felt so terrible that I was capable of cheating.

    So I broke up with luke the next day, and me and alan started secretly dating. Yesterday alan got back with his cheating, crazy of an ex now I'm on my own again and all I want is tim.

    I want tim back so much, he was my true love and id do anything to get him back, none of these other men have meant anything to me compared to tim.
    I don't know how to get him back, what should I do about my situation?
  • Dec 6, 2007, 10:58 AM
    talaniman
    For one, stop jumping from guy to guy, you need to be single for awhile to prove to yourself you can be happy on your own. Give yourself the proper time to accept that Luke is gone, and get over him. Those rebound relations with co-workers are a very bad idea. Be alone, and find your happiness within you, and when you have healed, someone will want to share that happiness with you. Good luck.

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