Im having trouble believing my husband that he is not cheating on me. All that I have seen of him suggets that he is. I need help to actually get proof and not feel like Iam going of my mind. Help!

Can you tell us a little bit more like give us the reasons you think he is cheating. Tell us of things he may have done or said and we could help you better. We like to help.

What makes you think that your husband is cheating on you? What are you seeing that is making you think of this? Please explain and give some more details. On another note did you ever here of the show cheaters.


Cheaters.com is the website. Visit it if you feel.

Joe

Sorry, I know you are looking for help, but card readers and the such is not proof.

In the end, what is already lost is trust. So even if he is not cheating, the relastionship is already on bad grouds just because you think he is.
If he is, then the relationship is even worst.

Next if he is not and you continue to drill and question him, sadly many men will start since they feel they have nothing to lose at that point.

You both need to go to counseling to work on your relationship. Cheating or not, the entire relationship can be saved if both parties want it to be, but it will take a lot of work

Hire a Private Invetigator, or tail him yourself. Follow him and see what he is up to.

Hi,
I am not a psychic; don't pretend to be. I really don't think any card readers, psychics, fortune tellers, etc, can tell you for sure if your husband is cheating on you.
As another answer stated, you need to follow him. Be sure he doesn't see you.
Or, if you have the money, hire a private detective or investigator to follow him, watch him, and report back to you.
I do wish you the best, and hope it's not true.

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Originally Posted by kamara72

Im having trouble beleiving my husband that he is not cheating on me. All that I have seen of him suggets that he is. I need help to actually get proof and not feel like Iam going of my mind. Help!

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Your first intuition may be right, but you need some sort of evidence. Maybe not phyical, but some indication like distance towards you. Intimacy and his reluctance to comply with you. The best thing to do is to simply directly ask him. You need to quit living day to day with doubt and the uncertaintity. You have to take the first step, because it is important that he understands that you are concerned about him. Communication is vital, to a healthy relationship if you do not take the first step then there can never be any closure in the matter. Courage in one leads to trust in the other.