Heyy does anyone know if you can be slipped a ruffie or date rape drug when your already asleep? My friend is freaking out about it because she hasn't gotten her period AND someone left the door open to her dorm room the other night... she said she felt so weird when she woke up. But she was drinking the night before maybe that was it. But I feel bad for her she had an abortion once before w. her BF and she's stressin...

I just didn't think it was possible to be given the date rape drug if your asleep you no?

If anybody knows anything let me know. Thanks a lot

Justme

If she would get sit up and drink in her sleep. But if she had been drinking, they could have given her something some time before hand.
But then drinking makes you feel funny.
When she woke up, was her pants and panties off but if she is drinking we often do things we don't want to remember either.

Okk so they can't slip you something during sleep rite? Lol... that's what I told her... I think she's being weird. Haha.

I don't think they slipped her anything before hand. We were all drinking w. friends. It was only like 5 of us... and we are all close.. I really doubt it

If you are close why would you think that they would do something like that? I think she just felt werid because maybe she drank more than she usually does or maybe she drank something she doesn't usually drink?

Hello just:

So, there were 5 of you, and you're really close, and she didn't screw any of them, yet she got knocked up, and has no idea how it happened??

Well, she DOES have a problem.

excon

I think excon is rude and if you just came on here to be an you should find a hobbie. Anyway, if you know everyone and don't think it could happen... well.. people are not as good as we would like to think. I don't know, I would get a pregnancy test and make sure.. if so you need to do some blood tests.. its probably just cause she was drunk and had a bad dream or something. I am sure all is well. Hope everything works out.

Okk thank you all...

My friend just gave me new information... lol... she said she found white stuff on the very top of her blankett... I thought maybe it was saliva, but it was real white and smelled odd.. also her guitar was on the floor that morning... now maybe it fell, but the way she has it... it never falls... haha. I don't know.. maybe she was raped, but it wasn't slipped into her drink therefore, she had to be already asleep and then they gave her something... I don't know its hard to believe that though... and sounds impossible.. who knowsss.

As long as she doesn't get pregnant I guess we're goood.. :/

Any suggestionsof what a friend should do for her?

Is she still seeing the boyfriend you mentioned? If she's pregnant it could be his. Also, if she was really drunk she could have passed out from the alcohol and been raped. Either way she should be more careful and next time you all go out drinking you might want to have a designated non-drinker to make sure everyone gets home safe and everything is locked up tight.

She is not seeing him anymore... he lives in a different state actually... haha. I just think its impossible to rape someone in their sleep, not matter how drunk they are... they cannot slip you something in your sleep rite?

Ummm, it wouldn't take much to rouse a person up enough to give them something if they were still sleepy, or she could have taken it in her drunken state before she went to sleep.

There's also the possibility that she wasn't drugged at all but had a drunken one nighter with someone and is either too drunk to remember it, or doesn't want to admit to it...

I have to wonder if you find her situation funny because you have added in lol and haha to several of your posts? The best thing she can do is find out if she is pregnant, and then go from there. She already has the story to explain it all right?

I mean I jjust think she is over exaggerating... if someone were to slip her something I'm sure she would have noticed or had a slight memory of something... I mean she was wasted yehhh, but this probably happened like 6 hrs after we were drinking... I doubt she'd still be sooo out of it you know? Maybe some weird things happened that night ironically that makes her think she was raped... but I doubt it.. she's been upset all week so I try to explain this to her... she doesn't want a pregnancy test yet.

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Originally Posted by justme005

she is not seeing him anymore... he lives in a different state actually... haha. i just think its impossible to rape someone in their sleep, not matter how drunk they are...they cannot slip u something in ur sleep rite?

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Okay, I don't know if this is bothering anyone else and maybe I'm making too much of it, but why do you keep saying haha or LoL:( , this is a very serious issue and not at all funny. As to what you can do for your friend, be there for her and help her through this.

Yess I know... I just think if someone raped her she would feel like she had sex the night before.. you no? She didn't really feel like she did... she just had weird occurrences. She did end up getting her period after that, hopefully she gets her next period too then we will know for sure. She just got over it and says she is still ovulating.. I don't know? I told her it was normal though... she is a ittle moody but I think its because she's stressin so much. And yes I am standing by her.. I talk to her all the time.. every time she feels something or starts freaking she comes in my room or calls me! I don't mind... I appreciate you guys helping me out.. I really think she's OK. The fact she found a little white spot on her blanket may have just been her saliva, but its been there for a few days now so I don't know? She's starting to worry me now.

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Originally Posted by justme005

heyy does anyone know if you can be slipped a ruffie or date rape drug when ur already asleep? my friend is freaking out about it because she hasnt gotten her period AND someone left the door open to her dorm room the other nite... she said she felt soo weird when she woke up. but she was drinking the nite before maybe that was it. but i feel bad for her she had an abortion once before w. her BF and shes stressin...

i just didnt think it was possible to be given the date rape drug if ur asleep ya no?

if anybody knows anything let me know. thanks a lot

justme

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Not while she is alseep unless she was given a shot.

Oh really? Are you positive about that? I doubt she got a shot because shed have a mark on her! And plus I don't think kids at my small school would go as far as give her a shot just to get laid.. I KNEW it... I knew she couldn't have been slipped something in her sleep w.o having some sort of recolection of it. And plus, there are so many slutty girls just waiting for guys like that. Like I said, she did end up getting her period and now it is overr, she claims to still have ovulation and is peeing a lot. She keeps coming up with stuff... like I think she's just parinoid about it now. I know a few days after you period you may still have ovulation and some cramping... its OK... but I shall keep passing this info on.. I am leaving for xmas break soon.. I hope she's OK being home and all.

Thanksss

If anyone is still reading this... when should she take her pregannacy test? She just got done her period on like dec 10th its now dec 16th? Can she take it nowww?

Hi,

I don't think it is possible to get someone to take a roofie when they are asleep. I do though think it is very possible to get raped in your sleep if you are really drunk, I am now 34 but, I had something similar happen to me when I was 18. My friend that I worked with I spent the night at her house. She lived with her boyfriend and his friend. She was 27 and her boyfriend and his friend were about the same age. She wanted me to meet her boyfriends friend and they lived far away that is why I was spending the night
Plus, we were drinking a lot. Well his room mate didn't get home until about 1:00 am. Well I said hey. He was playing pool. I mean there was no contact or flirting or anything. By the time he got there I was done. I was very drunk and ready for bed. Well about 10 minutes after he got there I told everyone good night and went to bed. I was sleeping in a room by myself and I shut the door. I should have locked it. Well I was asleep it seemed as if what was happening was a dream. Well actually for me it was he was doing these things to me and I was dreaming about it. I was completely asleep. I dreamed some guy was kissing me then that he was kissing and fondling my chest. Then I dreamed that he started unzipping my shorts. Well that is when I woke up. I didn't know what to do I just told him good night I am going to bed. At this time I didn't know if I was still dreaming or not because I was very drunk and had probably been asleep for a while. Well when I woke up my bra was unhooked and my pants were unbuttoned and unzipped if I hadn't woke up he would have rapped me while I was passed out. Sick huh!! I was very mad the when I found my clothes unhooked. I had never did anything to ask for it and in fact I closed the door that seems to be a big indicator you want to be left alone. Anyway my point is if she didn't wake up there is a possibility she could have been raped in her sleep if she was really drunk. Even if her clothes were on right. If she didn't wake up the guy might of fixed her clothes. I would suggest if she hasn't got her period yet I would take a pregnancy test and if I were her I might also go and get an STD test. In the future please be more careful. I know your going to drink some most young adults do but, you might want to figure out some kind of system that would make sure all girls get back to your rooms and LOCK THEM. When guys want to do something with a drunk girl they don't always knock so make sure they can't get in. Not to mention if you live in a dorm if she went back to her room but, didn't shut it it could have been anyone. It could have been any guy who went by and noticed the door opened and knows that she drinks sometimes. I wish you the best of luck.

Love,
Michelle

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Originally Posted by justyou500

If it wasn't for date rape I'd never get laid.

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