So I went out with my ex boyfriend Ryan for 3 years and he broke up with me which was devastating and soon after I met another guy Wayne, he's nice and easy to hang out with and talk to and seems like a friend but with Ryan there was a lot more intimacy and we are like best friends and hang out with the same people and now when I hang out with friends which I have done a lot lately I see him all the time and there still seems to be something. My boyfriend Wayne and I are on a break and allowed to see other people and I'm not even sure if he is but I'm seeing my ex I don't know if it's a good thing but I feel like I want to start up the relationship but I still want to be friends with Wayne so I stopped seeing Ryan and told him I needed to figure out everything first. It's just hard because with Wayne have to go see him and he never comes to my house and I have to hang out with his friends yet he's never even been around mine, we also haven't been hanging out lately because instead of me going to his house as usual I've been going out to bars and hanging out with friend. What do you think I should do ?

Why does Wayne not come to your house and why does he not hang with your friends?
And why did the first guy break up with you?

Well He never wants to come to my house because he says he likes his own bed and being in his own house which I understand but all the time is a bit much I think. Ryan and I were also both new into the relationship thing and we were eachothers firt time and first love type thing but after three years I think he started wondering what else was out there and he wanted to get back together the week after but I said no because I also wanted to see what was out there , but not too much that's too great to me. The story is really long though because of how long its been... also I found out last time I went on his computer that Wayne is into some weird porno websites lol I never said anything about them but it's pretty freaky and I don't get it but whatever. It's a pretty awkward situation and I'm not sure what to do. Also this weekend I'm supposed to go to Ryans moms house for the night to pick up his car and Friday I'm supposed to be going out with my friends and Ryan will be there again, Wayne never goes out with me and my friends because he doesn't like them so its kind of weird . Confusing sitation...

Wayne sounds a bit weird to me. Seems like everything has to be on his terms and that is not good. My advice would be to stay away from him. Chill with Rayn too. Stay free so you can meet different people.

Leave them both alone, and have fun with your friends. Neither of them sounds that promising. Do you really need a b/f to have fun and be happy??

Thanks for all the help I'm probably going to end up staying away from both of them for now and we'll see how things pan out. I'll update of course too :)

So yeah I ended up leaving both of them and we're friends now which is fine but I got myself in new trouble the other night but I think it will be all worked out soon too lol

I would say go for ryan, but that's only because he has my name lol

Hey! How old are you exactly? That sounds really creepy but I have to know these things before I answer the question!