What is the meaning of this guy. My x
Hello,
I have been reading some of the things mentioned here in this chat... I was wondering.. what anyone thinks of this and could anyone offer advice...
I met this guy and it took me two years to actually get intimate and get into a relationship. I found out he lied about EVERYTHING... he said he was a pro hockey player... that he was getting kidney diyalasis.. he dad had a stroke.. just everything was a lie... so I broke it off... then he came back saying he loved me etc.. I believed it.. went back and am in the worst spot... he keeps coming back.. but is so sneeky... doesn't tell anyone he talks to me.. and told me three weeks he wanted me to come to "his" new house to talk... but we ended up in a park... I had to park my car two blocks away.. and low and behold that night he had me sneek into his bed room window because he didn't want his sister that lives with him to know I was there... and I also had to hide in the closet... so I just left.. he never calls and only texts.. he is 24 and first off I don't think that is his house.. and working on things I think is a lie because he doesn't bring me around but sneeking me in and not calling me... so I ignored him.. he came back last week... saying he worked till 11:30 Friday for a school district for the IT department which I think is complete bs.. I think he was with someone... and calls me to ask if I want to go see lights and hold hands.. etc... but then the other day I text him and say why do you keep coming back and he didn't respond... I asked if he is trying for something or if he will be a lone for a while.. and he said single because it's easier... so I was like OK whatever.. so tonight... I went out with my mom and got coffee... I didn't think I needed to respond to him when he asked me who I was with and where I was... he said stop being secretive... and I just ignored him.. he is now thinking I am with a guy.. saying I am like everyother girl.. etc... what should I do? I am having a hard time letting go.. but how can he do this to me? Why? And what is he benefiting from.. doesn't guys have some sort of emotions? Please help!:(