I have been with this girl for 4 years she is 38. She treated me real bad never wanted us to advance in our relationship. No matter what I tried everything preached over and over. She never cared what I wanted or how I felt. She lied all the time. I was at her beck and call. She spends very little time with me or shows me 1% love affection. For 2 years. I just caught her with another man a month ago and one lie after another. She tells everyone she is so happy in love with him and he makes her feel like and angel he has a heart of gold. She is never letting him go no way. We are broke up a 6 weeks and she tries to keep in contact with me in some sort of way threw emails. She tries to tell me how happy she is. She says I could have had that to. She looks for reasons to talk to me and keeps asking me did I have sex with anyone degrades who ever I date. Asking how I am doing and asking about my family But I do not reply to her emails. Yet she wants to buy things for my kids and asks to call them. Why is she doing this? She don't want me she is happy with her new man? Why is she doing this? What's going on with her? We never spoke on the phone 6 weeks the first 2 weeks a little on msn. But I gave it up. Now just a short little emails a couple of lines I DO NOT REPLY. I just ignore them and her. Will she stop eventually? She keeps saying it hurts that much I won't even talk to her. She says she is sorry for everything.