I have a 5 year old daughter. She refuses to wear panties. It started when she was 3. Every time I ask her to wear them she goes into a huge fit and cries for at least 15 minutes or more if I make her keep them on. She says they hurt her, but I am not sure if she is just saying that to not wear them. I talked with the doctor and she didn't think it was a big deal for her not to wear them,but school does not see it that way. Please help me on this subject.

Get her some boy shorts and don't tell her their panties.
Also make her wear pants to school if she refuses to wear panties.

Talk to a Dr. about why she is not wearing them. There might be a chaffing or something that makes them uncomfortable for her. Maybe another brand or material, could even be the dye in certain material.

Let me see, make her, she gets use to it. Who is the parent for heavens sake.

Are you buying her the right size? Too big or too small can cause a problem.

I have to agree with the good father... Who is the parent? You don't ASK her to wear them, you TELL her to wear them.