Hello, I have suffered yet another bad relationship with a guy and all I can really say is men are idiots. I feel really crumby and I need help on feeling better. So yea, for this thread I am not asking for advice(but if you got some let me have it please) what I am asking for is all those ex-boyfriend stories so I won't feel that I am the only one that has had bad experiences with men... and for the guys out there, tell us about your evil ex-girlfriends. It will really make me feel better, hope a lot of you post your nightmare stories... bye.

Oh boy this should be fun. I dated a guy in high school once who didn't want the popular kids to know we were dating so he made me feel like poo in front of everyone. I made him feel the same later. Dated a guy in ROTC. One of my guy friends had been over at his house when he called up his ex girl friend saying he loved her and missed her and that was the end of that one. If I hadn't confronted him about it he would have probably kept dating me and her at the same time. Dated a guy who felt he had to always compare me to his baby's mamas model girlfriend from Iceland. She was apparently better than me because I wouldn't give my virginity to him. He had the nerve to ask me one day "Do you want to be a virgin for ever?" I was so infatuated with him but his attitude sort of got to me and eventually I left him in a puddle of his own tears. There was the boyfriend who went behind my back and slept with his exgirlfriend and 5 other females at the same time and then bragged about it to me. I know that seems like a lot of boyfriends but I was not having sex with them wich is part of the reason a lot of those relation ships failed. Guys say they don't respect a girl that doesn't make them wait but then if you do make them wait they either cheat on you or they want to break up with you. Not all guys are stupid like that though. You get yourself an older man honey cause they don't play silly little boy games and they'll let you be yourself. I think Ill get myself an older man next time.

Thanks for that crankiebabie, I needed that. Wow,you are right, lets get us some men... send the boys home to their mamas.

I had this one guy that I fell in love with and he said he loved me back but in reality he had his girldfriend and he cheated on her with other girls too. Then he wanted to get with me and I told him, " yo, you got your girl, I'm not doin nothing until you get rid of her" he didn't and he, I'm ashamed to say, got me too. We didn't have sex or anything but we messed around pretty bad, then after that he decided he didn't like me anymore and went to my older sister, I was heartbroken and now him and my sister are together and they recently had a son together.

Another guy lied to me about being married, he said he was separated from him girlfriend and that he wasn't with her. I believed his lies and became his girlfriend. About two weeks after that he said he wa leaving to Mexico for a year and that he'd be back. I said that I'd miss him and he "left" Two weeks later I saw him again. I had a water bottle in my hand and I got so mad I sqeezed it together until there was practically nothing left of it. I threw it at his head and walked away, later that day he called me and asked my why I hadn't said hi to him.

Stupid men, they suck. If there are other horror stories please share, I find it quite amusing. Bye.

Girls fall for guys lines so easily. What happened to taking your time and find out info about these guys. Guys WILL tell you anything to get you into bed.

Married you will tell you even MORE lies to get you into bed.

There are good guys out - QUIT falling for guys so easily.

Take you time with them. You set yourself up when you don't take time to get to know them.

The married guys aren't always available - you ca nenver go to their apartment - they don't return your calls right away - they ALWAYS say they are going gto get divorce when they LIVE with their wife and the wife thinks everything is OK.

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Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Girls fall for guys lines so easily. What happened to taking your time and find out info about these guys. Guys WILL tell you anything to get you into bed.

Married you will tell you even MORE lies to get you into bed.

There are good guys out - QUIT falling for guys so easily.

Take you time with them. You set yourself up when you don't take time to get to know them.

The married guys aren't always avaialble - you ca nenver go to their appartment - they don't return your calls right away - they ALWAYS say they are goin gto get divorce when they LIVE with their wife and the wife thinks everything is ok.

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Well you have to keep in mind that these are young girls doing this. I was very young and did not know any better. My parents never took me to the side and explained boys to me. So I had to learn on my own. I sure know better than I did though. Now its my way or the highway. Men can't stand me now because I'm such a spoiled brat. :D

Well keep it up sisyer AND you Won't get hurt!! Believe me!

Build barriers like that and you won't get hurt at all!!

That is the plan my man. I sure hope so.

Believe me you are not alone greatinbed - we have all been there! I too used to fall for all the wrong men. To this day I am not quite sure how I was attracted to so many aresholes that wanted to just hurt & abuse me. But I have taken it as a long lerning curve and I can see them coming a mile off now. It always sucks at first - but after a while, you look back and see that all the hardships, the wrong decisions we make all aid to shaping us into a better, stronger person. I have come out the other side and so will you.

Keep you chin up darlin; you are a lovely person and I have every faith in you!

Hi,
All men are not bad; you have just had some experiences with some who are!
Some of us are caring, respectful, kind, and courteous to everyone we meet. Hang in there, and you will find him. When you do, you will be glad you are meeting new men, talking with them, and learn not to jump at any chance you get (not saying you do now!).
It takes awhile to get to know someone, and if within that time, you find things you don't like, that outweigh the "good", then it's time to move on. Trying to change someone rarely works; again, not saying you have tried to do this, either.
I do wish you good luck, and keep looking.

I hit the wrong button and di not get to finish my rep comment so here it is below:

I went on a long journey of dating men and although it took me a while I have found myself a wonderful guy. I discover something new about him everyday and it only makes me like him more.

I really think there should be an edit button for the rep comments - so that if you do hit the enter button by mistake and you have not finished tyoing your comment then you can amend it. Lol - Just a thought.

Women go through this bad boy stage where they are attracted to the jerks.

Some women realize they are attracted to the wrong guys early... some never do.

Women rely on their FEELINGS too much when attracting a man - and it gets them in trouble.

I have been attracted to the wrong guys for ages. Always seemed a good idea at the time; and the fun & excitement that the arseholes create for you really can cloud your judgment. Thank god I know better now :cool:

Have you ever had a guy call you in the middle of cheating on you? I was dating this really hot guy (dark haired men are the best) and he called me from home and telling me he missed me and he sounded weird so I ask him about it and he says some ones coming. Well someone was " coming" allright! I found out cause one of my trust worthy male friends told me that after I got off the phone my boyfriend had bragged to him that he just got through sleeping with some girl down the street from him. I guess they must get off on that kind of thing. He was a beautiful man though. Sigh.

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Originally Posted by crankiebabie

Have you ever had a guy call you in the middle of cheating on you? I was dating this really hot guy (dark haired men are the best) and he called me from home and telling me he missed me and he sounded weird so i ask him about it and he says some ones coming. well someone was " coming" allright! I found out cause one of my trust worthy male friends told me that after i got off the phone my boyfriend had bragged to him that he just got through sleeping with some girl down the street from him. I guess they must get off on that kind of thing. He was a beautiful man though. sigh.

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:eek: that's outrageous - how can a guy even dream of doing something like that??

All I can say is get to know some one. The jerks/bad boys who want to use you will not want to do this - they don't care about YOU - they care about themselves only.

The 'good guys' - will take the time.

:eek: Look I am tired of you men trying to pretend you are so perfect and that you didn't have any bad girlfriend experience. Ive heard enough sob stories from my guy friends and believe me you do just like us females do when it comes to falling for the wrong person. So put your egos away and dish the dirt.

Crankie is right you know - Men are just the same as women when it comes to picking the wrong partner.

Please - no - I didn't mean - that. I only saying I've seen so many women suckered so quickly into a guy and they fall so fast - they hang on to that guy for years too.

Hey I've had some horrific experiences.

The key is to build barriers and walls - and if the person passes those barriers (most don't) - then you can SLOWLY let them into your heart.

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Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Please - no - I didn't mean - that. I only saying I've seen so many women suckered so quickly into a guy and they fall so fast - they hang on to that guy for years too.

Hey I've had some horrific experiences.

The key is to build barriers and walls - and if the person passes those barriers (most don't) - then you can SLOWLY let them into your heart.

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I agree - I have built up barriers etc over the years. Pete is the first one I have let through in nearly two years. Kind of wised up to the arseholes.

I did have a man long time ago who was so good to me that any man after him just does not compare. I still think about him after so many years. But ever since him I have much higher expectations. It use to be I wanted a cute guy and that was about it. Now he's got to respect all women, be good to his mama and his daddy, not be racist, take care of his family, be faithfull, listen and understand, kind, gentle, honest, and all that good stuff. I have yet to find a man since then that is like that. Where I live at now its nothing for a guy to hit a woman unless you weren't raised here. So us women have to go out of state to find a man worth our time.