omg pleaseeee help me ... i really really like this lad and ive known him for about 3 months now wen we first met he liked me but i werent intested then i started likin him n we got togetha BUT we were neva offical he sed he werent ready for a girlfriend stuff happened between us but then we sorta stopped talkin so i left it , weve started talkin agen now BUT this other girl who i really dont like started flirtin with him loads n they are txtin each other and goin out together but then i ask him if he likes her and he says he doesnt ..... how can i get her out the piture and win him back over???

Maybe you want him now because you know somebody else does too? That's a common thing, you can't have me but you can't have anyone else mentality.

If that's not true than tell him you like him, he says he does not like the other girl and so at least you have that information going for you. I think he probably still likes you, so give it a shot, the longer you wait the more time he has for the other girl.

LOL! The kick you need, that's sooo true. Its such a complicated dynamic,when you know or think someone likes you and you wait on it,only to find out other people may see in them what you do... then its WAR!!

I hope it turns out for you, we are all in this boat together:)