I am afraid of a few thing I am scared that the father will get visitations when I can't trust him I wuld feel much better if the judge gives his supervised or no visitations until parenting classes are complete if supervised I will ask until my son is out of diapers and can eat alone since the father don't do them thingsand my son was a preemiee and has early intervention enrolled because he is slow and will the judge grant me full custody and he supervised my son is 6 mnts old the court date is jan 4 I am also afraid of the fathers mother will do somethang sneeky they r bad people they don't listen I told them when watching my child I told them when to feed him when his nap and etc they did not listen so when they did that they lost there privlage to babysit . Theb father does not no my child crys when to feed ,diaper,sleep ,etc someone help u can I'm me at carlitov1 on aim I have questions I need them to be answered please

Also the father got a storage unit that my name is not on and my stuff and my sons things r in there he refussed to give me the combo and key and now our things r in jepordy of getting sold if the fathers sister and mother stop giving him payment for it the father don't work and refusses to work the fathers mother told me and my family that "my son doesnt have to work"

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also the father got a storage unit that my name is not on and my stuff and my sons things r in there he refussed to give me the combo and key and now our things r in jepordy of getting sold if the fathers sister and mother stop giving him payment for it the father dont work and refusses to work the fathers mother told me and my family that "my son doesnt have to work"

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If your things are locked in his unit and he won't give them back to you you have to go to Small Claims Court.

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i am afraid of a few thing i am scared that the father will get visitations when i can't trust him i wuld feel much better if the judge gives his supervised or no visitations until parenting classes r complete if supervised i will ask until my son is out of diapers anmd can eat alone since the father dont do them thingsand my son was a preemiee and has early intervention enrolled because he is slow and will the judge grant me full custody and he supervised my son is 6 mnts old the court date is jan 4 i am also afraid of the fathers mother will do somethang sneeky they r bad people they dont listen i told them when watching my child i told them when to feed him when his nap and ect they did not listen so when they did that they lost there privlage to babysit . theb father does not no my child crys when to feed ,diaper,sleep ,ect someone help u can im me at carlitov1 on aim i have questions i need them to be answered please

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If your question is who will get visitation you will have to explain your concerns to the Judge and document them - no one knows 100% what the Judge will order.

What is the custody/visitation situation now? If you believe your son is in danger you have to go back to Court and request an expedited hearing.

Well since the court papers came to me after I filed the father has no rights of this piont until court hearing you I believe the father/grandmother/sister will take off with my son he's threating me before that he will take him from me and that since the father rather go dirtbike riding he will leave my son if my son starts crying

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well since the court papers came to me after i filed the father has no rights of this piont until court hearing ya i believe the father/grandmother/sister will take off with my son hes threating me b4 that he will take him from me and that since the father rather go dirtbike riding he will leave my son if my son starts crying

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Then you have to go to Court with all the documentation you can get and fight for your son -

Well when I filed for support and full custody I file also for the storage the papers also stated I didn't need anattorny/lawer I mean are the papers since no lawer/attorney is nessary the papers are basically saying that I'm getting full custody and they are going to listen to me on what I want for my child . It seems like the father just wanst to say I ahd a baby but he don't want any kinds care for it its been like that since my son was born I mean does the judge usually go with the mother and believes the mother more than the father

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well when i filed for support and full custody i file also for the storage the papers also stated i didnt need anattorny/lawer i mean r the papers since no lawer/attorney is nessary the papers r basically saying that i m getting full custody and they r gunna listen to me on what i want for my child . it seems like the father just wanst to say i ahd a baby but he dont want any kinds care for it its been like that since my son was born i mean does the judge usually go with the mother and believes the mother more than the father

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I am surprised that the same Court that is going to hear the support and custody petition is also hearing the storage issue -

No, I wouldn't say the Judge would believe the mother more than the father. There was a time when custody pretty much went to the mother but things have changed. The Judge will go with the better parent and that will be based on the proof. I have seen instances when one parent or the other is basically pond scum (pardon the expression!) but not a danger to the chiled and the parent does get visitation. He would have to expose your child to some danger - the rest of his personal life and what he says matters little. It's unfair but at least that's how it is where I live.

You can also ask the Court to appoint an Attorney and Social Worker to investigate the circumstances - they act as a Guardian (in legal name only) for your son and they recommend a course of action to the Judge.

You must be frightened - I think you have to take a deep breath, keep records, get your evidence together. Your son is fortunate in that you apparently love him so much and you have to keep it together in order to fight for him.

And I wish you luck -