Sharing neutral and grounds OK?
I am looking for clarification on sharing neutrals and grounds. When using 12/3 wire for home runs to panel , I believe it is OK to use the black for 1 circuit and the red for another circuit ( say black for plugs in a room and red for lights ). But is there a danger of overloading the neutral and or ground wire? I've seen some comments about splicing the neutrals at every outlet ,etc ( using wirenuts instead of screws) Also I've seen posts about separating the breakers on opposite legs in the panel for each breaker that shares a neutral so you don't have two breakers sharing on the same leg (balances the load on neutral?) any clarity to my questions is appreciated