Hi all,
Was wondering if you could help me, I'm 19yr old virgin, when masturbating I orgasm reall quickly (well I think that's what happens) How can I make this feeling last longer or come (no pun intended) later??
Hope you can shed some light?
KayLee x:confused:

Practice. While I do not condone masturbation, it is better than having sex for sex sake. I do not know how you are doing it, but try different angles, positions, stuff like that to find what feels good.

You need to stop before climax, wait for a few seconds-to a minute, then continue, practice this until you can stop as many times as you feel you want to last, then complete masturbating to climax . Kegel excercises are useful for women and men as they strengthen the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles-this enhances orgasm while providing better control.

You have to learn about your sexuality by practising masturbating with different fantasies, different kinds of stimulation, no stimulation(pure orgasm, no body touching) and so on... you don't always have to drive to orgasm... It appears you are totally goal oriented! But, why not be?? You will be with men who will be distracting you from your singlemindness. Lol ;)