Me and my girlfriend have been going out for roughly five years now. We both attend college. She has recently, been extremely busy to the point where I feel like she is possibly cheating on me. She seems to be hiding secrets, friends and places she is going when she is in Boston. We live 45 min. away, she commutes. Its possible that she is busy, but why is she being very secretive? I tried to confront her, but it the same answer every time. "Im busy at school".