My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. When I got with him, I had been to long got out of and abusive relationship. I wasn’t very trusting and the guy new that. He had been hurt before so I wasn’t to worried of him cheating. Now people have been telling me that this girl has been going around saying she’s been sleeping with him. I asked him before I decided to get mad and he told me he didn’t, but the girl is still running her mouth. What should I do?:(

I would confront the 2 of them at the same time if at all possible

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Originally Posted by lOv3cOnqU3rsAll

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. When I got with him, I had been to long got out of and abusive relationship. I wasn’t very trusting and the guy new that. He had been hurt before so I wasn’t to worried of him cheating. Now people have been telling me that this girl has been going around saying she’s been sleeping with him. I asked him before I decided to get mad and he told me he didn’t, but the girl is still running her mouth. What should I do?:(

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I have to agree with Foxy459459... just confront them at the same time if its possible

Often girls that go around saying that are doing it to get the girlfriend to get mad and leave so they have a chance. They are usually the type that will fake being pregnant.
Watch for red flags and lies. Are there any times you think he MIGHT be with her?
Usually confronting only gets denial. If you do confront them watch the body language to see if they look like they are trying to hide something.