Ok I was with my boyfriend for a long time so we did do stuff.then we have ended for good in October.He did it,it was pretty hard on me but now were friends.I do still have feelings for him but not enough to even care that he hooks up with other girls.So one night we were talking and kind of called me sloppy seconds in a playful way and I said no way you are too if anything and he said guys aren't consider sloppy seconds.is that true?

I don't believe you should consider anyone sloppy seconds many people have different relationships that breakdown and you should not be considered as "sloppy seconds" whether you are male or female. Oher people wishing to date people who have broken up from relaionships do not consider them to be seconds whether you have had one relationship or a thousand. Males do have the tendency to masculinize a relationship break-up by degrading the female of the species. So my answer is that males nor females can be considered as sloppy seconds.