My husband is not interested in having sex with me. He always finds an excuse to avoid it. And when we do the act that is once in a blue moon he always shows more interest in the rear than the boobs. Other than this I don't have any particular info but his showing that much of disninterest makes me to doubt him. Could anybody please help.

No, a lot of men have a interest that way, some like various parts of women bodies.

If he wanted mens, then he would be gay, wanting it in women is just a bit perverted by some standards, but far from gay.

It doesn't mean he is gay.. many men just prefer bums! The saying.. 'BUMS OR BOOBS MAN' it is true.. I wouldn't worry.