am 18 when i waz 17 years old i had a bad realationship that me up badly . Know i found a guy that i think he love me well that wat he say . I want to be able to trust him but i cannt am just afraind that he is going to hurt me .what canm i do to tell him ? How can i tell if he is been honest with me? Is just hard because sometimes he says he is gonan call but then he don't ? Then i started thinking wrong. How can i know if he loves be the same way as i do?? i been threw a lot that am just scared to loose him . This month he is going to mexico and am afraind that wen he comes back he is not going to want to be with me no more he is going to be there for a month ? Wat should i do

Just curious, what country are you from? Not that it matters any, just noisy.
To answer your question. It takes time to build trust again after being hurt for what ever reason.

Being hurt sucks, and its really hard to trust again. But everyone deserves a chance, and until they do something wrong you have no reason not to trust them ! So trust this guy, but before he leaves tell him how you feel-exactly how you feel.
Another thing.. . You are young, don't get tied down so soon, HAVE FUN!
You will know when a guy cares for you the same way you do for them and you will know when its right.
As for the phone thing.. . That's all guys! They don't think the same way us girls do !

Good Luck !

Hello lovehurtsme! It's a hard thing to learn how to trust someone again. I know, I've been there myself. My ex-husband use to beat on me, chase around on me, wasn't a good provider, etc... I finally got rid of him for good. It took me time to trust another man. Once I did, I found a wonderful man, that I have been happily married to now for 3 years. I would have never known what love is, if I wouldn't have left down that "wall". Good Luck!