My girlfriend of 7 plus years says she doesn't feel a sexual/physical attraction to me anymore. She is moving out, to take some space and see if the attraction comes back.

What should I do? I feel like things are just terrible right now, we are getting along great considering. Everything else in our relationship is great. She is moving out on the 1st of December. I feel like this is a big step backwards and that we will just end up breaking up very soon.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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Originally Posted by headache

My girlfriend of 7 plus years says she doesnt feel a sexual/physical attraction to me anymore. She is moving out, to take some space and see if the attraction comes back.

What should I do? I feel like things are just terrible right now, we are getting along great considering. Everything else in our relationship is great. She is moving out on the 1st of december. I feel like this is a big step backwards and that we will just end up breaking up very soon.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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Your girlfriend is moving out of the relationship. She is trying to do it the kindest way she can because she does care for you, just not the way you want her to. Let her go. You can't make someone feel a certain way for you and in the long run you will feel better about yourself by not falling apart over her moving.

Its really hard man.. we have all been there.. let her go for no because you know you can't hold on to her.. and you wouldn't want to out of self respect. So do the best thing you can.. wish her well.. and let her go.. now she may come back to you.. or she may not.. of course things are a lot easyier said than done!

I can't imagen how you feel as I have never been in a 7 year relationship.
But I know it will be tough but you'll get threw this :D

She says she wants things to work out.

But at the same time, she is just acting so weird. She doesn't have any physical attrazction to me anymore she says.

She calls me everyday.

Should I just break it off now?

Break it off, give her the space she wants and needs. If the two of you are to "be" you will find your way back together. It may be painful, but by your breaking it off, you know where you stand. If she wants you back it will be her move to make and you are not waiting around in the meantime. You will both be free. What you do with that freedom is on you.