She wants time and spce??
My girlfriend of a few month has asked for time and space. She says she still has scars and commitment issues from her ex of 3 years that cheated on her a year ago. We dated for 3 months and she said everything we have is totally in tune wiuth eache other. The way I touch her, kiss her, talk to her, listen to her, everything drives her crazy in the good sense. So suddenly after one romantic night she calls me in the morning and says things are too perfect right now and its' overwhelming and she needs time and space.
What do I do? Will we ever connect again if it was so perfect?
What does she really want?
She has spent months complaining that she can't find a decent guy to settle down with and then when we are so perfectly matched you would tihnk we could make it happen. What is stronger her need for a serious future with a great guy or her insecurities and issues.
How much time is too much where I might lose her and how can I get her back. Do I make her jealous like some say to do.
Her father is very ill as well, is it hard to love now?
Everyone has been so decent, I truly hpe what everyone is sayis true and will work out. The fact is that she is right about how perfect we are and that's why it's so damn hard on me to deal with it because I'm ready and she's not.
Her father is battling cancer and it doesn't look good. I have been very supportive and never asking for her time when I know it overlaps with family time. I also wonder if the problem may also be that she can't love someone at the same time and feel fuzzy inside when she is torn apart by her father.
We bumped into each other very briefly the other night and we shared a stare. It was longer than would normally be comfortable and you could see in her eyes she was thinking of things. And just before leaving she put her hand around the back of my neck and gave me a long kiss on the cheek, longer than a normal kiss. I know in the past when I left someone and wanted nothing to do with them, the last thing I would do is something like that. But maybe I'm just reading something into nothing, I don't know.
Things are a little better
We have been texting and talking. She wants to discuss everything and has appologized how it all happened. She asked to watch my dog while I am away this weekend which to me, if I wanted to be clear of someone I wouldn't offer that kind of favor. But then again maybe she's doing it to make up for what transpired, I'm not sure at this point. But we texted and laughed a lot for the past couple of days and when I get home tomorrow, hopefully we will have this conversation she wants to have to discuss everything. I will not be heavy on her or remind her of all the nice things she has said. I will be purely supportive of her and tell her I respect her and am always available in any way she needs me. I think this is the best I can do. Any suggestions. Am I being set up for the so long conversation. It's just so hard to understand when a woman tells you everything you do together is perfectly in tune with each other and then not want to be with you. Totally confusing??
She wants to pick me up at the airport tomorrow which is out of her way and schedule
She wants to pick me up at the airport tomorrow which is out of her way and schedule. Do I accept. A friend said call her from the airport and say you are there and tell her that if she can fine, if not say you're grabbing a cab and it's no proble. She asked me to pick her something up while I was on my trip. She collects these items. She didn't ask me in a *****y way, it was nice. And since she doggie sat for me I intended on getting her something anyway. But what do I do about the airport lift home thing?