Hi.A couple of nights ago,I bumped into a man I've seen before, in a nightclub.I last saw him last year and when he saw me then he said he thought I was sexy! That was the first time I saw him.I was out with my uncle,This man knows my uncle and some more family members.I'm not sure how old he is,maybe late thirties or early forties.When he saw me he said I've seen you before and he got close up so only I would hear what he was saying and he said I just want to say that I think you're a very attractive young lady '.But he said he wasn't taking me on,not sure what he meant by that,and said he would kill me,meaning my uncle would kill him.My uncle is a similar age to him.I didn't get chance to speak to him more,but I would have told him that I have been involved with a man in his forties before,he won't know that.
I was surprised he even remembered me.I wanted to tell him that I was willing to give it a try,or just be mates with him.I'm not sure if I will see him again,but he usually goes where my family goes,so I might see him again.
It definitely gave me a boost and I haven't been able to stop thinking about him since.Also,he knows the other older guy I was involved with,I don't know if that matters.
I wonder if I told him that I don't mind about his age,he would change his mind ?

I am 23 by the way.

What do you think about this ?

Date him only when in a group setting. My first impression is that he just wants to go to bed with you. Find out more about his history. The age difference is no big deal. Why he thinks you're attractive is the meat of the question.

I hope I will see him again.What do you think he meant by saying he wasn't taking me on though ? If he only wanted to sleep with me,would he have said that ? I'm not sure.I couldn't really speak to him then,but if I get to speak to him next time I might be able to find out more about him.That is,if I see him again.