How to control my jealousy and paranoia?
I've been dating this wonderful guy for 2 wees now.. OK, I have had the problem of jealousy with all my previous boyfriens.. I question every little thing they do and when they answer me, I don't believe them.. what can I do to stop being paranoid? Every time when he picks up his phone I think: what if he is busy to sms other girls or what if he is dating them also behind my back? It's driving me crazy! I like this guy a whole lot and I don't want to drive him away from me.. if someone could please give me some advice on it, I would appreciate it a lot!
How long more or less should a girl wait before a guys asks her to be his girlfriend
Just wondering if a girl has been dating a guy for a month and a week now and he hasn't asked her to be his girlfriend yet, should she see red lights?
Jealousy, how do I stop it
Ok, so I have been dating this guy for 4 months now, he's an absolute honey! And I think I have messed everything up. The past month we have been fighting almost every weekend because I can't control my jealousy. If he just speaks to his ex on the phone I freak out! Last weekend we saw his ex girl's mother. We were there with other people and he stood up and greeted her. They stood there for a while talking, I tried my best to hear what they were saying. The women asked him how it was going with our relationship and he told her that he was not sure if it was going to work between us, and I don't blame him because I fight all the time! So she asked him if he didn't want to take her daughter back and he said they tried and it didn't work he will always love her and will always want to know how it was going with her, but they were done. So I totally freaked out because he was so negative about our relationship and that he still loved his ex. We decided the night before that I was going to try to trust him and that we would try our best to make it work. That is why I freaked out, because I totally love him and want to try but when I hear stuff like that, why should I even try! I know I am jealous and I should work on it but how? Can anyone just tell me if I should go see someone?