Does it hurt the first timeyou have sex? I'm really scared. I'm not like like 12 either haha
I'm 22 and getting married in a few months. I've waited and I'm scared to death!! Help!

It hurts a little, but since you're obviously trusting of this man, your future husband, just explain to him that it hurts a little if it starts to, and he should slow down or stop, and be understanding. Remember to use protection unless you're trying for a baby haha.

Ya, it hurts a bit. My first time my husband only got it in about half way and I had to ask him to take it out because it was hurting too much. We tried again about a week later and finally it didn't hurt as much. And on top of all that I had spotting for about 5 or 6 days after!

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Originally Posted by imogene

does it hurt the first timeyou have sex? I'm really scared. I'm not like like 12 either haha
I'm 22 and getting married in a few months. I've waited and i'm scared to death!!! Help!

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Don't be scared!! Its going to hurt a little but it is not as bad as people make it seem.

Hurt? It didn't hurt at all my first time.