Originally Posted by Iroq
I have a deceased son. He had a partner before he was killed and a grandson was produced after his death. The girl is east Timorese now an Australian citizen. She feels she has to live in another city as the daughter in law of my other son (living) will not have anything to do with her. I suspect because of her parents attitude to colour. This is never said. Other reasons are found. This has an adverse effect on my son who now sides with his wife. They now have a daughter who we see often. Travel to the other city is costly so We see my grandson about 4 times a year. His mum would be better off living close to us as we could support but is afraid. To confront the daughter in law near us would cause us to lose some or all of the access to our grandaughter. My wife does not want to take the risk. Living in another city means she has no support and is not savy to our culture consequently makes serious mistakes. She took up with another man believing him that he would marry her. He made her pregnant and bolted. She now has two sons.
I am lost