How do I know if my fiancé still loves his ex. She's in Australia at the moment and we are in South Africa, they were together for 4 years and then they broke up for a year, 4 months back she went to Australia but two weeks before she left he broke up with me and we are engaged and she stayed with him in our flat and now she'a coming back! He said to me that he was with her because he wanted to know if he still loves her and if he wanted her back, but now we are together again, he said he doesn't want her back, and he doesn't love her anymore, but I just want to know if that isn't signs that he still loves her:confused:

I don't know, he has some feelings for her otherwise he would not have broke up with you. I would not trust him enough to get engaged to him again. I mean what if he wants to see if he still loves her again. Will he break up with you again?
Sounds to me like he doesn't know who he loves.

How do you feel about your ex's?
I know still have love for every one of mine. Even my wife whom I haven't seen in 20 years.
The question is does he love you more?
I don't think he respects you more by breaking up to find out once before.

As far as your fiancé breaking up with you while engaged so he could be with the other woman in order to prove if he was still in love with her sounds very interesting and I bet he appreciated your willingness to wait in the dark while he and she explored the innermost workings of what he calls love.

I wouldn't be too worried about your fiancé being in love with his past girl friend but would be very concerned about his bold desire to investigate his feelings toward another woman or women. Be smart and good luck.