We are not telling you anything. We are suggesting you forget about her, what you do is your choice.
From our experience, what we want back is what we never get back, because too much has changed for the worse and there will always be trouble one way or the other. There will be lack of forgiveness, jealousy, repeating past mistakes, and not letting one forget that they were human enough to make them.
This is a transition we all go through in our lives, like it or not, and it ususally makes us stronger and helps us grow.
Getting over the main issues of rejection and denial are the hardest part, and once you are over that, you eventually wind up 'normal' again.
As far as 'timebombs' go, if that were true, there's be millions of people exploding every hour, so please get real. Nobody is worth making them the center of your universe or ruining your life, plans and goals.
Give yourself an opportunity to know someone you deserve because nobody deserves 'iffy' relationships these days. Life is too darned short.
We always want what we can't get..... how true, but so unlogical.
Good luck.
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link I included in my last post here - it really helps, and shows you that you are not alone.....
