I'm going on a date with this guy next week and I really have the hots for him. Thing is I know he's a bit of a man's man and it's going to take one really special lady to win him over. I want that person to be me which is why I really want to get it right. I'm not sure how to handle the date with him, should I play it cool like it's just a date and I don't care whether I see him again or not. Can any guys out there tell me what attracts them to a women on a first date and makes them want to see them again, and what on the other hand puts them off. Is it best to be confident and flirty, or should I just try and be myself which unfortunately may not be enough for him.

WHATEVER YOU DO,do not be seductive or flirty as a relationship is built on dignity and respect for each other.or else he'll just think you are a 'loose woman' and would only be interested in you for that momment and may lose interest real soon.you must try to be yourself but you must stay aloof and act as if this is just an insignificant date but do not be a show-off or be immodest.what I really mean to say is that,talk to him casually and do not apear CLINGY.if he asks you for another date,say you are busy and give him your phone number if he asks for it.the next time he calls and asks for a date,go out with him.guys really like a girl who is hard to get but not really those who practically throw themselves at them.GOOD LUCK!