first my ex tells me he loves me and stuff then the next thing I know he dumps me for a better girl and he says he's sorry and stuff and sometimes he says he doesn't care and yet he looks at me like all the time I need help with this I'm so confused I don't know what to do anymore I have a class in school with him :'( it kills me to see him and even if I think I hate him I don't and things are chaotic HELP!! He tryd to get me jealous with this girl he was using because we have a dance called the snowball dance and he was going with her to make me jealous but when she found out she broke up with him and I need help with this badly :'(

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Please be patient the folks who may be able to help you may not be online at the moment. We here answer questions for free on our own free time and as this is the beginning of the Thanksgiving holiday many people may be traveling or getting some rest to gear up for tomorrow.

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Please be patient the folks who may be able to help you may not be online at the moment. We here answer questions for free on our own free time and as this is the beginning of the Thanksgiving holiday many people may be traveling or getting some rest to gear up for tomorrow.

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Yes agree J. And Happy Thaksgiving to you and yours.:)

Have some comfort that you are not the first to experience this situation. As you will see from this board, there are many others (unfortunately) that have faced this and are experiencing this heart break. I am going through this myself, and have class with my ex as well. It's hard, but you are not alone.

How old are you two? If he would date someone just to make you jealous, then he is not worth your time. Someone that truly cares about you would not do that to you. What's coming next is going to take some effort. You need to heal and move on.

If you can, try the No Contact (NC) method of healing. That means remove all communication and reminders of him. This allows you to begin the healing process. Also keep yourself busy. Don't let someone take away your happiness. We all deserve and are capable of being happy as individuals. Good luck. You will be OK.

How about just forgetting him and instead go out with other guys?

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How about just forgetting him and instead go out with other guys?

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I agree. It may be the best thing to do in a situation like this, rather than keep "dragging yourself over the coals" and wondering what is going on.

How about finding someone else who will be true to you rather than play games with you emotionally?

There are "lots of fish in the sea" just waiting to be caught!

Some one who causes you that much grief is probably not the best person for you. You might do well by forgetting about him, that may be easier said than done, but for your own sanity you need to do this. Don't waste energy on a situation like this. It's not worth it.