My boyfriend and I used to have sex A lot. We've gone through some rough times relationship wise these past weeks and now that were back on top of it we haven't had sex in maybe... a month? He says he doesn't want to have sex as much because he keeps having a dream that I tell him I am pregnant. I am on birth control and we could always use protection, so I don't get it. I know he might be a little frightened but it's been a while and I don't think a dream would stop him from wanting to have sex with me. He still fingers me or gives me oral and I give him oral.. But I think it would be better if we just had sex again. What should I do?

A dream KEEPING him from having sex!! Guess mine are a little different;)

That's an unusual response to be sure, if your on B/C and you havedone it before I don't know why he is all of a sudden concerned. Maybe you should tell him that you think its odd,although he may get upset if he's hiding something.

I say confront it, you haveto get an answer and now I reallywant to know myself:)

Thank you, I will let you know. He'll be over tonight. So hopefully things go well.

Thank you!