Hi everyone! So my husband and I moved to TX just this past March from NC. He did 8 years in the corps. He's from IN and I'm from OH. I've been with him in NC since 04. Anyway, we go home for X-Mas every year and it works out great because our families are only 5 hours apart despite being in different states. With the move to TX & buying a new house & vet bills from the puppies, we're not going to make it home this year. His mom, brother, niece, and 2 nephews were just here visiting in August. We haven't seen my family since X-Mas of 06. So they are flying down here on the 28th of Dec and leaving on the 31st. They can only manage a weekend trip due to conflicting schedules of my parents and sisters and money's tight for them too. So naturally, I'm thrilled! It's coming up on a year of not seeing them. Well hubby's mom mentioned wanting to come down to see us around Christmas time as well. Everyone's bummed that we can't make it especially the moms :) I really do love his family and have a great time with them. Thing is, hubby thought it'd be great to tell his mom, hey you should come while Katie's family is here! Our families have never met BTW. Problem #1, Where will we put her? I've got one extra bed, for my parents, and a pull out couch for my 2 sisters. The only other extra room is the office where we keep the cat litter box. Eew. She said she'd stay in a hotel but we said no way. Problem #2, is it wrong of me to want to spend that short weekend with only MY family whom I haven't seen in a year? Don't get me wrong, I'd love for them to meet one day, but not that X-Mas weekend. I always figured they'd meet when hubby & I had our first human baby. Maybe in a year or so. We don't even know for sure if hubby's mom is going to come down and if this will even work out for her. I'm secretly hoping she can't make it that weekend and will come a different weekend. Is this wrong of me? Hubby & I talked about what a pain in the butt it'd be cramming everyone into our house but how would I tell him I'm not comfortable with his mom coming on my family's weekend without him getting upset with me? I'm not even sure that my family would be comfortable with it as I haven't mentioned it yet. I don't think they would but I don't want to tell hubby that because I don't want him to think of my family as a bunch of stiffs. He knows I adore his family so he just assumed I'd be all for it. But I'm not really for it at all. Am I being greedy?