I've been sleeping with my partner since February and even with partners I have had before I have never come. It never bothered me before but since I started going out with my current partner it has really started to bother me. I really like him and I want to feel closer to him by experiencing this. I think its bothering him as well thinking that its something he's doing, but I don't think it is because everything feels amazing I just want to take it to the next level to make a closer connection to each other. Can any one help please :(

Hello, this may not help much coming from a guy. But the best advice I ever received when I found an inability to enjoy a decent BJ was to just forgot about it and enjoy it, don't put any pressure on yourself for not coming it will only prevent it actually happening.

However, if I actually new the answer to making a girl orgasm I'd be a billionaire with a best selling book!! Some previous girlfriends I have had either orgasmed allot or didn't at all.

Please do a search for the myriad of answers to lack of orgasms during sex for women-I really think that this subject has been covered ad nauseum.

Many women have this problem-you are not alone...

The post above has a reasonable answer, enjoy yourself and don't put pressure on your partner or yourself